"What's with this offer? I am not going to GIVE my place away!!!"

Markets go up and markets go down. It is a cycle. I hear this from economists, my university professors, and many other so called experts. It happens. So what do you do when you purchased an investment, such as real estate, when it was at its peak, and now the market is down...but you don't want to "give it away". That is certainly a question to ponder. Just because your neighbour sold a couple years ago for X amount of dollars, (and of course your place is much better than the neighbours) it does not mean that yours will sell for more than what he sold for, or even for an equivalent amount. The current market value is what a buyer will pay for a property today, without any outside interference (such as a bitter divorce, foreclosure, or something like that). Consider this example - say I purchased a cottage at the lake back in 2007 for the family. I paid $300,000 for a cottage, which was a heck of a deal at the time. Over the years, I have kept it up, fixed up a few things, and it looks just as good now, if not better, than when I purchased it. Now, though, my kids are past the stage of wanting to come to the lake with mom and dad, and we hardly ever go out there. Thus, I want to sell. I have heard that the market has been soft over the past couple of years, so I am prepared to not go overboard with the list price, but "I am not going to give it away either". What exactly does that mean??? Of course, I am not going to give it to the next buyer that comes out of the woodwork. "Giving" means you transfer possession without any compensation, at least in my opinion. (I am not sure what the dictionary says, and frankly, I am on too much of a roll to care) The question should be, "How much of a loss am I willing to absorb if I get a low offer?" Perhaps I have a mortgage to pay off, so I am limited that way, as to how much I can sell for. Or, perhaps I am just too pissed off to take that much of a loss on my investment. Welcome to the real world! If I am not ready to take a loss, then I should not be trying to sell my property in a soft market. However, if I really want to sell in a soft market (sales are slow, not much competition among buyers) I need to decide what my priorities are - am I ready to take a loss? how much? How long am I ready to sit on the property and pay taxes, utilities, and whatever other fees (condo?) that come along with it? Sitting on a property costs money too, unless say you have a vacant lot. No. wait. Property taxes. And then maybe there is the stress of maintaining a second property. How much is this all worth to me? To my family? Oh, and just because cousin Joe who lives at the other end of the country, who is in a different market, and different market cycle, is experiencing a hot marketplace and can't BELIEVE your place hasn't sold yet, doesn't necessarily mean that he had better luck, a better real estate agent, or better knowledge of the market. If he knows the market, he knows it cycles, and that just because the market is hot there, much like the weather, does not mean that it is hot here. Oh, how the experts come out from nowhere and can tell you what you have done wrong, what you should do, and "Boy, it that was me, I sure would have done things differently." Just smile and nod, and walk away. When you want to sell, check out the local market. Check with a LOCAL agent, who knows the market where your property is at. You will get all sorts of advice from everyone, but LISTEN to the local agents, local business owners, and consider what they have to say. Then, look at your own scenario. If the market is not in your favour, consider whether now is a good time to sell or not, and if you still want to sell, look carefully at your options. Of course you are not going to GIVE it away, but maybe, just maybe, the best thing to do would be to take your losses, and then be done with it. Finished. And then walk away and not worry about it anymore. I had that real life scenario happen to me. I listed my own place too high, letting it sit on the market with very little action, still paying taxes and utilities, and driving a couple hours each week to take care of a house I no longer lived in. I dropped the price. When I finally got an offer, I cringed. It was lower than what I wanted. However, it was an offer and it was in writing. I accepted it. Didn't like it, but I did. When the deal went through, my wallet was not as heavy as it should have been, but I was relieved that I no longer had to worry about this property anymore. I am not saying that my decision is right for everyone, but it worked for me. Just something to think about...